21 Female Dating Experts Reveal How to Attract Women

by ED HUDSON

If you want to know exactly how to attract women, look no further.

There are countless how-to guides on attraction flooding the web, yet most of them leave you none the wiser. Why? Because they are written from the opinions of men.

I mean do guys really know what goes on inside a girl’s head? No. Of course not!

NOTE: If you’re serious about attracting women you’ll want to adopt these 10 traits.

So what better way to learn how to attract women than to ask the women themselves? And who better to ask other than 21 of the world’s best female dating experts!

From this group interview you’ll discover what are the BIGGEST attraction killers, how to avoid them, and learn the secrets to building attraction to get the number closes you’ve been longing for.

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We had a lot of fun putting this interview together and would like to thank everyone who got involved! Be sure to visit the experts’ sites to learn how they can help you become better at dating.

NOTE: We also asked 31 Pick Up Artists how to pick up girls in 7 different situations in a parallel interview here, and then combined the results from both interviews to make this fun infographic on how to talk to women and build attraction!

THE QUESTION

To crack the secret code of attraction you have to start by learning from your mistakes. So we asked the dating experts this question:

“A woman meets a man in a bar who she’s initially attracted to, but later in the interaction she becomes disinterested… 

What do you think are the 3 biggest attraction killers that men are guilty of making?”

We collected 21 amazing replies chock full of awesome advice on attraction like nothing you’ve seen before!

So without further ado, lets start by finding out what the experts think are the BIGGEST attraction killers:

The Biggest Attraction Killers (voted by 21 Female Dating Experts!)
#1 Not holding eye contact / poor attention span
#2 Too much sexual intent
#3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied third place)
#4 Risky topics – i.e ex girlfriends, sex & politics
#5 Being too drunk
#6 Bad hygiene
#7 Being over eager
#8 Not being present – i.e. not enjoying the moment

Read on to discover each dating expert’s top 3 BIGGEST attraction killers together with their awesome tips on how to build attraction in an interaction!

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Alison Blackman, Amanda Rose, April Braswell, Ariel, Blair Glaser,
Christie Hartman, Cija Black, Damona Hoffman, Dr. Wendy Walsh,
Ellen T. White, Jen Friel, Julie Ferman, Kelly Seal, La Blonde,
Lindsay Chrisler, Lisa Clampitt, Neely Steinberg, Sarah Beeny,
Shereen Faltas, Stephany Alexander, Vanessa Taylor

NOTE: Responses are listed in the order they were received in.

Stephany Alexander | Stephany Alexander

In my opinion, the 3 biggest attraction killers that men are guilty of making:

1. Bragging too much and not being a good listener. Many times men try to impress too much by talking about themselves and bragging, sometimes even exaggerating the truth to impress the woman. Although it’s important to share a bit of information when meeting a woman, bragging can be a huge turnoff and most women can tell instantly when a guy is full of it.

Listen to what a woman says, ask her questions, be interested in what she has to say because it is firstly about her and secondly about you when you initially meet.

2. Not making eye contact. Staring at a woman’s chest or her other assets, looking around the room, texting or fiddling with your smart phone are all huge turnoffs. Your goal is to make a connection with the woman and that is done through eye contact and uninterrupted attention. Anything else feels dis-ingenuous.

3. Do not make sexual innuendos. Don’t make sexual comments, don’t say anything sexual, and definitely don’t touch her upon first meeting her. You are trying to develop trust and this immediately ruins it. A woman wants to feel special and not like a piece of meat. Say something complimentary about her hair, her outfit, her shoes or offer to buy her a drink.

Stephany Alexander is one of the world’s most well-known relationship, infidelity and dating experts. She is an entrepreneur and founder of WomanSavers.com. Ms. Alexander is the best-selling author of “Sex, Lies and the Internet – An Online Dating Survival Guide” and “The Cheat Sheet: A Clue-by-Clue Guide to Finding Out If He’s Unfaithful,” Ms. Alexander can help you improve your odds in finding Mr. or Ms. Right or improve the relationship you already have.